we need stuff. badly. and a lot of it.

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I’m currently furnishing our flat out of a 1710 page catalogue, it has everything we could ever need in this place and they deliver, which is a bonus, because I’m not carrying home a dresser or even a food processor on my back!  Apparently this store, Argos is kind of like a JC Penny, but without the part where there is actually a showroom, at all. Instead you just walk in and stand around a bunch of tiny tables with catalogues on them and when you pick what you want, they go fetch it for you from the ether. We brought home a catalogue and since we are still sans internet, it’s one major source of entertainment for this gal. Supposedly delivery is 3.95, flat rate, so in theory we could place one big order for much of what we still want or need, have it delivered and call it good, instead of continuing to buy things by the backpack load every day on a walk to the  village. This would be especially nice for big things and the heavy things, and the breakable things, oh yeah, and ALL OF THE THINGS.

On a brighter note, we have a bed! I walked into town yesterday, planning to purchase and make delivery arrangements for one we had seen at a discount store, however once I got there it turned out I got to take it home immediately – if I was willing to hop into a giant white van with a strange man… Yup, when I went to try and make the purchase and the delivery arrangements, I was told that the store doesn’t offer delivery, but ‘by the way, I, Stuart, the duty manager, will deliver it for you under the table for 10 pounds’. And, since Stuart was about to get off work in 15 minutes I could just kill some time and then he would drop me and my new furniture back at our new home. Well, I’m never one to turn down a free ride home apparently, so after grabbing some clearance dishwater from the store next door (bonus heavy item to go in the delivery van!), off we went. I didn’t know exactly where it is that I live, I mean I know our street/neighborhood name (Chandlers Close), but not the name of any other street in the general vicinity. I think the closest street name I know is Trafalgar Square, it’s in London, you may have heard of it, kind of a big deal, but NOWHERE NEAR US right now… So, I told him we were up the road from the fire station, which I’ve now walked past a few times and he seemed confident of where we were going. After a few minutes small talk, and one missed turn Stuart helped me carry in our new furniture and offered up his services should we have anymore furniture delivery needs and went on his marry way. And, now we have a bed! YAY! Totally worth the hypothetical risk of kidnap, rape, murder, white girl slave trade, whatever.

Following the delivery adventure, I made dinner, which was ridiculous considering we do not yet have a complete enough kitchen for assembling a full meal, even one as simple as stuffed peppers, but I carried on and it turned out okay. Note to future visitors, the rent for staying with us will be a food good that we are unable to purchase here – the list so far includes Sirachcha, Crystal Hot Sauce, and Vanilla extract (in fairness, you can get vanilla here, but it is REALLY EXPENSIVE). Also, Half & Half (not that anyone is going to be able to bring that, because dairy and many hours of travel and eew).

Now I shall try once again to work up the courage to go shower again, but as you may have heard, it’s a truly terrible experience and I’m not sure I want to leave the house so badly that I’m willing to try it again. That water is so cold it makes your head skin actually burn. That seems antithetical, but it really does. So, catalogue…

Observations: Trying to ask about delivery options at the store today, the girl at the check stand said, ‘I’m sorry, I cant understand you at all’ She was frustrated and that was my first ‘serious’ language barrier experience here, it made me suddenly realize, I am the immigrant, the fish out of water, the hapless here. It wasn’t a big thing, but it was sobering, and I hope it increases my empathy in those interactions in the future – because they currently bring out the absolute worst in me.

More to come.

– alaina

Well, that was bracing…

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Well, that was bracing…

This is my 3rd afternoon in the UK, and I’ve finally braved our freezing, creaking, pathetic little shower and it was every bit as bad as Matt said it would be. But, on a better note, we’re really here, we’re in our ‘terrace house’ in the little village of Wantage (which I have yet to see, but I hear is delightful) in the UK. We did it. We moved ourselves and both Schipperkes to England. It’s been about four months of planning, worrying, and working towards it, but the move has now happened and now we just have to adjust to it and get functioning in our new home.

First, things first we really need a bed, a sofa, the internet and some fucking hot water. I will take these things in any order. Immediately. Secondly, we need dressers, eating/cookware, and a few more pieces of furniture to unpack our few belongings into. At some point, we need to figure out a way to dry our clothes, get some grass growing in the ‘garden’ for the dogs, and bikes – because I can only walk and carry so many things home from the village by myself and I’m not a fan of multiple trips. So, bikes.

I departed Seattle, WA on Sunday, Feb 22nd at 3:30pm PST, I arrived in London on Monday, the 23rd at just about noon. I have absolutely no idea how many hours happened in between those times, but I know I only slept for a few of them. I did however watch a lot of tv I didn’t care about, seriously contemplate stealing a really nice airline blanket (you go, Icelandair), and listen to the Fifty Shades of Grey soundtrack multiple times (still haven’t seen the movie, but I like the soundtrack a lot, even if they are trying a bit hard with the Sinatra). Upon being dropped off at my door by Kannan, my private driver – yeah, that’s right, we’re that fancy – also, we had no other option because I had 300lbs of luggage with me and no way in hell was I going to be able to navigate the bus and train system by myself with them – anyways. I started unpacking my luggage and trying to keep myself busy while waiting for Matt to come home from his first day at the new job. It was all going pretty well until I stepped outside to talk to the woman and child who were crouched in front of our porch. Turns out it was the landlord, we had a nice chat, the dogs were quiet throughout, we made tentative plans to talk more this weekend about our concerns about the place, then she left. Then I tried to go back in the house… Turns out we have what is known as a ‘Yale’ lock. It locks automatically upon the door shutting. I tried running after the landlord, then I tried breaking into the back garden, then I tried to continue not crying. My cellphone was inside, along with my coat, my shoes, and I don’t have any contact information memorized yet. So, that happened. Next, I knocked on a neighbor’s door and was taken in by our neighbor, Greg, a proper older woman who lives two doors down and who just happened to have formerly worked at RAL and was able to call and let Matt know he needed to come home and rescue his wife. She fed me coffee and biscuits and we had a fairly nice conversation while we waited for Matt to arrive, all in all – for being locked out my house on my first day in a new country while horrifically exhausted – I got off pretty easy.

Yesterday was less eventful, I read and slept a lot, I’ve been so tired that I haven’t taken the Melatonin supplement at night the way I should have, so I sleep two hours at night and then am wide awake and miserable the rest of them, I will have to do better tonight. I imagine the move will start to feel a little better for both of us when we figure out the kinks in this house (we really need hot water) and once we get a bed, sleeping on the floor, well, it sucks…

Observations: It is really lovely here, super idyllic, at least the parts I saw of the drive.

More to come.

– alaina